We’re sorry that you have your suspicions, and we’re here to help. Here are the top 5 signs your spouse is cheating, so you can be prepared.
Love is a beautiful feeling, often until infidelity happens.
But the thing with infidelity, it rarely knocks on your door. It sneaks in on you.
Sooner or later, the telltale signs your relationship is falling apart start to show. Naturally, you start feeling something isn’t quite right between you and your partner.
Are they cheating? No way! You dismiss the thought.
But then your relationship doesn’t get any better. It’s time to put your doubts to rest.
Here are 5 signs your spouse is cheating on you.
1.You Have a Gut Feeling
Our bodies have an ability to pick up unseen clues.
In a study conducted at the University of Western Australia, for instance, researchers asked a group of men to pick out women who had cheated in the past by looking at their photos.
59 percent of the time, the men correctly identified the cheats. This is intuition at work!
So if your gut feeling tells you your spouse is cheating, it could be spot on.
2.Cell Phone Closely Guarded
When it comes to relationships, cell phones are double-edged swords.
While they keep couples in constant communication, they can also reduce physical communication and interaction between couples.
What’s worse, infidelity is a call, text or email away.
As a result, cheating spouses must guard their cell phones or risk getting caught. This may involve activating a passcode on it, switching it off when with their partners and even jumping into the shower with it.
If your spouse is suddenly acting all protective of their phones, you’re not too far off from catching them pants down.
3.Change of Routine
We all have our regular everyday routines.
However, when you spouse’s routine changes for a reason that doesn’t really add up, that’s a warning sign.
Perhaps your spouse, who has never given a damn about toned muscles, suddenly starts hitting the gym. Or, a couch potato suddenly becomes an outdoor enthusiast.
Whatever new routine your spouse has adopted, they could be making time for their new love interest.
4.The Paper Trail
You see, even expert thieves often leave a trail that leads right into their nest.
If your spouse is warming up to another person, there will always be a paper trail of some sort.
As such, don’t be so quick to file or trash receipts you find around your home. Read what the payment was for. If it looks suspicious, that could be a sign.
Study bank statements and cell phone bills, too.
If you have a joint credit card and your partner stops using it, it’s probably not because they’ve become overnight economists. Something’s certainly cooking!
5.The Heat Is Off in the Bedroom
Was your bedroom one hell of a steamy place but now it’s dull and cold as winter?
Sure, things in the bedroom can’t always be hot, but when you feel your spouse is using more wood than usual to light up the fire, he or she could be thinking of somebody else.
Also, if your partner has a sex addiction, it can be challenging to keep up with his or her needs.
If for instance, your male spouse suddenly stops complaining that you aren’t meeting their bedroom needs, and you’re sure they aren’t sex addiction treatment center for men, maybe they’re getting more sex elsewhere!
In 41 percent of marriages, one or both spouses have had an affair in the past.
If it hasn’t happened to you, it could be on its way, or it’s happening but you just aren’t in the know! With these tips, you have a good chance of discovering the truth sooner than later.
Has your spouse ever cheated on you? Did the bomb go off without warning or the clues were there all along? Drop a comment, we’d love to hear your story!